bribe or thrive?

 So now that I am a a full swing home school mom and all. I have the kids  all the time. So that means a little revamping of certain things. Like doctor, arrends, shopping, and many other bore me to tear let alone the kids things. So I came up with the plan to that if they were model citizens at above places then we would go to some place fun afterward. Like the park, skating, mall play area, no mcdonalds as it is the devil for my weight.lol After all I do not have to rush around like a mad woman any more for others. Most of the time. The kids understand when for example DMV calls and we have to stretch the bad a little longer to get to our reward.  But I have found peace is sweet and quiet at the doctors is nice. Going to the park afterward is a small price to pay for it as well. My way of thinking is they are learning about earning things. When grown they have to earn their wages now they have to earn their outings, swimming, tv time, sweets, in return I get what I want at least most of the time. Ev is a little slow on the uptake still. lol. Towards the end of appt-. 's lol

 My next goal is to try it on the hubby. But he is pretty quick and stubburn. lol